Budapest Post

Cum Deo pro Patria et Libertate
Budapest, Europe and world news

Moscow Man Engages in 5,239 Conversations on Tinder Using AI to Find True Love

The quest for true love continues to evolve as artificial intelligence (AI) now steps into the arena of matchmaking.
A young man from Moscow, after a breakup in 2021, applied the prowess of OpenAI's GPT-2 to aid his search for a partner on Tinder, ultimately engaging in discussions with 5,239 women. The result? He reportedly found his soon-to-be bride.

The intricacies of dating don't simplify just because of the influx of dating applications like Tinder. If anything, the process becomes more complicated with the enormous range of potential matches. But now, a novel helper has entered the scene: artificial intelligence.

The story of Alexander Zhadan from Moscow started after his breakup in 2021 when he turned to Tinder to look for a new companion. Tired of spending hours swiping, messaging, and preparing for dates that led to dead ends, he decided to deploy a digital wingman, programming the OpenAI GPT-2 as his dating assistant. This program chatted with 5,239 women, scheduled over a hundred dates and, ultimately spoiler alert found the woman he would come to view as wife material.

Functioning similarly to Zhadan himself, after comprehending the young man's preferences and interests, the program liked potential matches' profiles. It also filtered out profiles displaying alcohol and those where star signs were mentioned in the biography, among other turn-offs for Zhadan.

Artificial Intelligence was even capable of scheduling personal dates through Google Calendar.

Even the early versions of GPT could send messages and engage in conversation, though not without initial errors. However, as OpenAI released newer versions of the GPT, including 3, 3.5, and 4, our protagonist continued to update his project.

The dating assistant eventually narrowed down the 5,000 possibilities to a single woman. For the first few months, she conversed with the ChatGPT, which she wasn't upset about upon learning it later. She noted that initial conversations on Tinder usually aim to discover potential partners' interests, hopes, and perhaps philosophies – something her digital interlocutor communicated effectively.

After a few personal dates, Zhadan suspended the ChatGPT from speaking with other women on Tinder. The couple moved in together not long after, still in 2023, and have even set a wedding date. They plan to enlist ChatGPT's help in planning the wedding.

Zhadan is not offering this service commercially, primarily due to operational costs – he has spent thousands on the program. Nonetheless, the use of ChatGPT for purposes like Tinder is becoming increasingly popular: OpenAI's GPT Store has been flooded with simpler versions of Zhadan's chatbot.

But does a relationship hold less meaning or reality if ChatGPT orchestrated it?

"If we can program a tool to act as a dating assistant and get to real human connection faster, it is far more authentic than trying to figure out who someone is in an endless thread of text," said dating coach Damona Hoffman to Gizmodo.

Despite these developments, dating apps are not necessarily keen on AI chatbots masquerading as humans on their platforms. However, the company behind Tinder, Match Group, doesn't outright ban such practices. Citing the Match Group's "AI principles," a spokesperson mentioned the company "develops features enhancing individual expression and the authenticity of human connections." Not specifically prohibiting AI programs, the Match Group did deactivate the app in Russia shortly after Zhadan ceased his other Tinder conversations.
Newsletter

Related Articles

0:00
0:00
Close
Farmers break through police barriers in Brussels.
Ukraine Arrests Father-Son Duo In Lockbit Cybercrime Bust
US Offers $15 Million For Info On Leaders Of Cybercrime Group Lockbit
Apple warns against drying iPhones with rice
Alexei Navalny: UK sanctions Russian prison chiefs after activist's death
German economy is in 'troubled waters' - ministry
In a recent High Court hearing, the U.S. argued that Julian Assange endangered lives by releasing classified information.
Tucker Carlson says Boris Johnson wants "a million dollars, in Bitcoin or cash, from Tucker Carlson to talk about Ukraine.
Russia is rebuilding capacity to destabilize European countries, new UK report warns
EU Commission wants anti-drone defenses at Brussels HQ
Von der Leyen’s 2nd-term pitch: More military might, less climate talk
EU Investigates TikTok for Child Safety Concerns
EU Launches Probe Into TikTok Over Child Protection Under Digital Content Law
EU and UK Announce Joint Effort on Migration
Ministers Confirm Proposal to Prohibit Mobile Phone Usage in English Schools
Avdiivka - Symbol Of Ukrainian Resistance Now In Control Of Russian Troops
"Historic Step": Zelensky Signs Security Pact With Germany
"Historic Step": Zelensky Signs Security Pact With Germany
Russian opposition leader Alexey Navalny has died at the Arctic prison colony
Tucker Carlson grocery shopping in Russia. This is so interesting.
France and Germany Struggle to Align on European Defense Strategy
‘A lot higher than we expected’: Russian arms production worries Europe’s war planners
Greece Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage and Adoption Rights
Russia "Very Close" To Creating Cancer Vaccines, Says Vladimir Putin
Hungarian Foreign Minister: Europeans will lose Europe, the Union's policy must change drastically
Microsoft says it caught hackers from China, Russia and Iran using its AI tools
US Rejects Putin's Ceasefire Offer in Ukraine
The Dangers of Wildfire Smoke and Self-Protection Strategies
A Londoner has been arrested for expressing his Christian beliefs.
Chinese Women Favor AI Boyfriends Over Humans
Greece must address role in migrant vessel disaster that killed 600: Amnesty
Google pledges 25 million euros to boost AI skills in Europe
Hungarian President Katalin Novák Steps Down Amid Pardon Controversy
Activist crashes Hillary Clinton's speech, calls her a 'war criminal.'
In El Salvador, the 'Trump of Latin America' stuns the world with a speech slamming woke policing after winning a landslide election
Trudeau reacts to Putin's mention of Canadian Parliament applauding a former Ukrainian Nazi in his interview with Tucker Carlson.
The Spanish police blocked the farmers protest. So the farmers went out and moved the police car out of the way.
Volodymyr Zelenskiy fires top Ukraine army commander
Tucker Carlson's interview with Vladimir Putin raises EU concerns
Finnish Airline, Finnair, is voluntarily weighing passengers to better estimate flight cargo weight
Russia's Economy Expands by 3.6% Due to Increased Military Spending
Ukraine MPs Vote To Permit Use Of Dead Soldiers' Sperm
German Princess Becomes First Aristocrat To Pose Naked On Playboy Cover
UK’s King Charles III diagnosed with cancer
EU's Ursula von der Leyen Confronts Farmer Protests Amid Land Policy Debates
Distinguishing Between Harmful AI Media and Positive AI-Generated Content: A Crucial Challenge for the EU
Tucker Carlson explains why he interviewed Putin
Dutch farmers are still protesting in the Netherlands against the government, following the World Economic Forum's call for 'owning nothing.'
Hungarian Prime Minister Viktor Orbán stands up for European farmers and says, 'Brussels is suffocating European farmers.
This farmer seems to understand science a bit more than the event organizer, Klaus Schwab.
×